men who have assaulted me

1999 mark reynolds vanderbilt philosophy student long blondish hair raped me when i was sleeping in my gay best friend's bed, thinking i was safe. he was the new room-mate, and evidently thought raping the house guests was okay.

2002 rape, kidnap, strangulation---secondary rapist accomplice i fought off, fought for my life. rapist name unknown. going under moniker "worm." Nashville Police did not thoroughly investigate.
i was kidnapped from my art show at a music venue, bundled into a two-seat sports car and driven off to be raped in front of a third witness, whose house was broken into for the rape.
robbed as well.
i put up an epic fight, described elsewhere.

2004 hit in the back of the head most likely with a pistol during a carjacking in los angeles pico and crenshaw near music club, robbed of cell phone. lapd found car 30 hours later.

carjacker told me get out of the car or i'll kill you. large goose egg on back of head.


rape 2011 calle (karl) ledjebrandt stockholm bredang

2011 molestation in my sleep kent billebro. he invaded my guest bedroom, and inserted his hand into my shorts and stuck a finger in my vagina while laughing, just steps away from his young teenaged daughter's room. i gave her a nice bottle of perfume, feeling sorry for her her that dad is a creep.



2011 man in stockholm threatened me with a "slice your throat" hand gesture


2002 mark holladay beat my back as i drove a car at approximately 50 miles per hour on briley parkway at the madison entrance ramp. all i could do was focus on not crashing. it may have been an attempt to cause us both to die in a car crash.

2001 max shuster of green hills lamp store grabbed my glasses off my face, crushed them in his hands, to blind me, threw me to the ground and began kicking me, including stomping my skull. i was able to run to a neighbor to call police. the police did not come quickly enough. we found my car key from the grass where i was beaten, and left. met with police detective later to have bruises photographed.

2016 benjamen pickering  grabbed my arms and slammed my body to the kitchen floor as i was scooping stir fry into a bowl. he pinned me to the ground under his weight, thrashing me to break my neck.

as my body flew to the floor of the kitchen, i strained my neck muscles to prevent my head crashing on the ground. this neck muscle strain caused whiplash neck strain.

the crushing of my ribs and thrashing my neck to break resulted in injury to the tissue behind the left jaw bone, where recurrent lymph node swelling at sight of jaw bone puncturing the tissue at the maximum sight of injury occurs.

no major breaks said x-ray.  larnyx dislocated to right. long term neck complications. weakness and numbness on left side of the body after this assault.

2017 christopher guest duffy offered me work at coast radio and potentially bob chisholm center. He then harassed me about his herpes sexually transmitted infection which frightened me and groped my breast against my will after a series of uncomfortable and unwanted attempts to sexually harass and corner me and put his arm around me over my verbal objections. when i tried to stop his putting his hand in my waist band to prevent his molesting my genitals, and told him he was reminding me of other abusers, he slammed my body quickly into a slumping position on a couch, throwing my neck with such violence it re-injured the 2016 neck whiplash injury. he crushed my ribs under his weight, removed my hands from a defensive protective position in front of my face, pinned my forearms down causing bruising on my right arm, and pinning my thighs down under his weight. as i strained to free my arms and then legs he gloated with a sinister glee at having overpowered me as he rubbed his penis on my left thigh nonconsensually through his clothes and against my will. i struggled to break free. he forced me to peck him with a coerced and disgusted dry mouth ---lips sucked in--in fear and under complete four-point pin down, as i anticipated this becoming a full penetrative rape/murder with which i would be forced to comply to increase my chances of survival.

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this grimacing on my part may have scared him into releasing me as i struggled to break free.
maybe he realized he didn't want to go any further in terms of attemted rape, sexual assault and pin-down.

his face looked baffled and evasive as i confronted him and got him away from the elderly women neighbors i was worried he may also attack sexually.

christopher guest duffy repeatedly defamed me by suggesting he was on a "date" with me, "dating" me or in a "relationship" in his interactions with third parties and authorities. this is a lie he concocted to gain "marital rape immunity" or "marital rape privilege" normalization of sexual violence against partners.

this is not okay, anyway for actual people to assault each other in any conext.

it is especially disgusting that christopher duffy did this to me, due to the humilating fact of my non-attraction to him

it would be like if the ugliest boy in school is repeatedly telling people he is dating you.
he was SO UGLY to me that the first time i met him with brenda i had to look away from his face as i knew i would have a hard time containing my disgust at his looks.

the fact that he was somewhat smart to speak to, caused me to allow brenda to keep him in our social gambit.

for whatever DELUSIONAL reason, he suddenly got a crush on me.
I was worried for my safety.

i did not think he would assault.

Duffy knows full well i was not available and that the event was a group outing with brenda harper, which he prefers to mischaracterize as a "date" due to his begging to walk me home and have a cup of tea.

i confronted him about what he was doing to Brenda and Kim. He tried to make me his next victim.

Additionally, when i had an anti-stalking protective order on Duffy, he hired attorney chris palmer to try to further invade my privacy by obtaining my personal records to find an alibi for pinning me down in a rape pose.
Palmer's disgusting innuendo and insinuations to me, demonstrative a willful ignorance of the facts of the case, and were enacted in bad faith to FURTHER truamatize me.
I have reported this attorney misconduct to the Oregon State Bar.

this additional aspect of Duffy's unwanted privacy invasion, physical assault, attempt to breach my privacy and personal safety, or try to find reasons to humiliate me to justify his unjustifiable violence to me----causes me additional concern, that he is a very dishonest person, who will use nefarious methods, including sleazy legal intimidation tactics to bully a witness of his violence into silence.

This is not the type of character that is desirable in a mandatory reporter position.
This is not the type of character that is desirable with contact with the elderly or disabled.

Going on the attack-mode against a person who complains of assault adds additional injury, and will dissuade people from coming forward to achieve accountability and safety.

the assault was terrible. i would have respected it a lot more if he showed up to court promptly and explained, apologized, and took responsibility for his actions.
Instead he tried to drag to the legal proceeding out to weaken and delay and traumatize his victim, subjecting me to a battery of disgusting harassment by his attorney to intimidate, humiliate, victim-blame and retraumatize me, as duffy panicked knowing he had already self-incriminatd to police and adult-protection, trying to downplay the severity of the rapey pin down hold by calling it "wrestling" and "tussling" which he intitiated on my person. He is six foot six to my five 4 and a half.

i DO NOT feel safe at the community center.

i continue to be very concerned that his policy of attacking women, and bullying them into silence, and blaming them for his violence, makes him a very likely legal liability to SEPRD and NWSDS. If additional acts of violence occur at his hands, or are covered up with his cover-up methods, i suggest the betrayal of public trust will inhere.
My complete debriefing of authorities has been done in good faith to prevent future attacks of this kind. his mishandling of the investigation and attempts to mislead authorities, minimize, deflect, blame the victim, etc, indicate that he can NEVER be trusted to take sexual harassment or sexual violence crimes seriously.
He will always cover for the abuser, and if other sexual harassment or assault is going on, he cannot be expected to act in good faith.

His assault of a senior female on SEPRD property was followed up with similar cover-up strategy to make the victim feel unwelcome and discriminated against. intimidated.


when i broke free: i said: BUT I TRUST YOU, and escorted him off the property of elderly and disabled residents.
due to his work for seaside, oregon's meals on wheels program at Bob Chisholm Center at the Sunset Empire Park and Recreation District, i did not think he would be violent or dangerous. Despite my attempts to alert the public, his funding for his program at Northwest Senior and Disability Services and through Oregon State Department of Human Services is not mandating that this history of violent assault makes him an inappropriate person to have contact with the elderly and disabled.
while i can admit it is shocking that my attempts to whistleblow his assault have yielded very little pro-active leadership to ensure the safety of the public, he has hired at least two lawyers to protect himself from civil and criminal liability. He has attempted to provide a a Civil No Contact Order to assure me i will not be assaulted again by him.

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